My hair is short. I don’t shampoo it. I don’t always wear a bra. I usually keep my nails cut short. I like wearing black eyeliner. I will spend a lot of money on good shoes and jackets. I get Botox sometimes. I’ve thought about getting some form of plastic surgery but haven’t. I don’t eat sugar. I like Indian food and Mexican food. I used to overeat and have an unhealthy relationship with food. Now I’m noticing old patterns in this area returning. I love driving my motorbike

6 months ago I met a guy from Tinder who gave me some back-handed compliments about my looks and my age. (See Tinder Part 1 here – https://nataliemspeakman.com/2021/07/29/tinder-date/) As a result, I made a declaration to embrace myself as a 44-year-old woman. I shared an authentic-not-airbrushed selfie. (See above.) I got a lot of wonderful support from you all. But there was a part of the story I didn’t tell you, that I want to bring to light now. I slept with him, the Tind